An Open Letter to My Favorite Couple

Today I led a beginner's cycling group ride. One person showed up.

Today I led a beginner's cycling group ride. One person showed up. 

If I had done this years ago, probably even two years ago, I most likely would have been disappointed that only one person showed. But not today, today I’m filled with joy that one person showed up, I was able to connect on a one-on-one with someone who was looking for community and support like many of us do. 

Growing up, cycling was a lifeline to me. It helped me cope, dream, and inspire me to be a ‘go-getter’. Cycling kept me grounded. Then, as I grew up, I lost sight of the joy that cycling brought because, well, life happens, and excuses started to pile up on top of each other until I led myself to believe that I didn’t have time for the thing that brought me joy.

Fast-forward to today. Cycling has found its way back into my life, and it fills up my cup in so many ways. In this second phase of my cycling journey, it is now much more than a tool for self-care. It also represents community and intentional kindness. 

I decided to create this beginner's group ride based on my experience when I first started cycling to train for El Tour de Tucson. I felt scared, I was definitely out of shape and lacked the basic knowledge of cycling as a sport. But with the help, knowledge, and encouragement of Joe and Juan, I was able to challenge my mind and body to do what I thought would be impossible, ride/race 32 miles.  

I would have never thought that two complete strangers would be able to help me find my love for cycling again and create a ripple effect like it did today. I started the beginners cycling group because I noticed that the group offerings I’ve seen in my community are for people who have experience and are competitive or ride on the street (something that I personally am not comfortable with unless I’m riding with Joe and Juan).

When there isn’t room for you at one table, go and build one yourself. Don’t wait and hope for something to change or happen. Sometimes, you have to be the one who builds the table and chairs from scratch and thus creating space for anyone to find their place and come as they are.

To Joe and Juan, thank you for your love, support, and kindness!